Sunday, 13 September 2020
Saturday, 1 June 2019
How to cure piles problem instantly without surgery
Piles is one of the most painful disease humans can suffer. Due to the increased pressure in the lower rectum, blood vessels stretch around the anus and in the rectum. As a result, blood vessels swell or buldge in those area causing Piles.
What medical science suggests
Everytime you will visit doctor, initially, he will prescribe laxatives to you to make your stool soft to avoid but that's a temporary solution. As long as you keep on taking it, things remain in control but it will not cure the swelling around the anus and in the recum. As soon as you will stop taking medicine,, stool becomes hard resulting in pain and sometimes bleeding.
Best Tried Home Remedy Using Figs
Soak 3 figs(fresh or dried) in water at night.
Drink water and eat figs with an empty stomach in the morning.
That's it !!
Figs have the ability to cure all digestive problems and it cures the pilesproblem too. Fids seeds are really good for piles and it minimizes the swelling in rectum and around the anus till it goes away.
I myself tried it and i'm out of piles now alhamdulillah.
This cure is prescribed by our prophet hazrat Muhammad (PBUH).
Thursday, 15 March 2018
7 traits of a jealous person
“The jealous are troublesome to others,
but a torment to themselves.” – William Penn
Nothing
is more dangerous than the presence of a jealous person around you. To keep
ourselves happy, it is extremely important to surround ourselves with positive
energies and a jealous person has the art to ruin that happiness. So it is essential
to know the traits of a jealous person because these people can harm us in any
form because of their inner envy. We can control our behavior in any situation
but not others. We should always be able to identify them to save ourselves
from their evil plans and evil eyes. Below mentioned points are particularly
helpful in identifying a person’s envy.
Your
Happiness makes them angry
Every
time you achieve success or share some good news with jealous person, notice
their expression as soon as you inform them. Though they will congratulate you
right after hearing about your success, but you will be surprised to see an
expression of anger on their face as if they did not like something about it
and you wonder what happened to them.
Ruin your
happiness
Jealous
people try their best to give credit of your success to someone else and not
you. For example, if you inform them about your promotion they respond like
“You got promotion because of your good terms with your boss” which means not
because of your efforts. Their statements can easily turn your joy into a bad
feeling.
Always
compete with you
Jealous
people do not like you because they think you are at upper hand and
consequently, they are always in competition with you. Many times they copy you
in different ways. If you ever get a chance to go on shopping with them, if you
select some product for yourself they want the same for themselves. Or if you
buy mobile for yourself, they want the same mobile or some other mobile that is
more expensive than yours just to compete with you.
Become
companions of your enemies
If
ever someone disagrees with you on something, jealous people will always side
the one who is against you or your beliefs because they got a chance to let you
down through someone else’ hands.
Celebrate
your failures
Sometimes
when you share your failures with jealous people, rather than showing sympathy you
will notice a sense of satisfaction on their face and they will look glad for a
moment for no reason. You wonder what made them happy though they pretend to be
your friend. That’s the magic of jealousy !!
Always
justify ‘jealousy’ emotion
Just
say that one sentence in front of a person to check him
“Is
it okay to feel jealous for the good things in other people’s lives?”
Jealous
people will respond like “yes, it’s natural. It’s in human nature”
Where
as a positive person will respond like
“No, no matter what !! we should not get jealous of others. If we
like something they have and we don’t have, we can pray to God for that but
should never think of snatching it”
This
one question will out stand a person with envy and the one with positive
behavior.
Hate you for
no reason
Sometimes it happens that there are some people who dislike you
for no reason. Sometimes you notice them stare you with anger or they do not
let go of a chance to insult you in crowd. You wonder that I have never done
anything wrong with them, why are they against me. Don’t worry !! the problem
lies with them because they are jealous of you because of your good traits.
Final words
Just identify such people, avoid them, ignore them and kick them
off your friends list.
23:30
Posted by SarahNC in envy, hatred, jealous person, qualities of a jealous person, traits of a jealous person, why people hate you with 0 comments
Read More
Posted by SarahNC in envy, hatred, jealous person, qualities of a jealous person, traits of a jealous person, why people hate you with 0 comments
Saturday, 21 October 2017
How To Handle Your Child Smartly
Being parents, the most precious treasure we have is our
children. We can’t deny our love for them everyday no matter how hard it is. Every
mother is majorly concerned for her child and she wants him/her to become responsible,
mature, harmless and ready to face this world. But at the same time, we should
keep in mind that children will not follow what they are listening but will
surely do what they are observing. In this article, I would like to share some tips
to improve your child’s behavior.
Be A Role Model
So first of all we as parents have to become a role model
for them because contradiction between saying and doing will destroy your child’s
behavior and trust over you. If you want to teach them discipline, discipline
yourself first. Speak truth, keep promises even with children, be punctual, and
be kind, loving, affectionate and polite. Your children will automatically
become what you are.
You Time & Love-
Most Important Ingredient
What matters the most in a child’s physical and mental
growth is that one ingredient “Love” and that should be the most. According to
a research, every toddler needs minimum eight touches from their parent’s side.
Show your love and tell them that they are the most important people on earth
for you but never side them in a wrong way. Be just as well
Keep Your Authority
Be friendly with your children but keep the authority in
your hand. Respect should always be there and should not be compromised at any
cost. If kids are disobeying you, give them bad consequences. E.g if kids came
back from party late, they cannot attend the next party with your friends. If kids
disobeyed their parents, they can’t go to park that day. Catch them with their
weaknesses and stay stiff. Always implement the threats otherwise you will lose
both obedience and respect.
Make Rules And
Regulations
Children get disciplined at home. If home is based on rules
and regulations and their proper implementation is done, children will be
raised as organized individuals for sure.
Assign them Responsibilities
I once read a quotation
“if you want your
children to stay on ground, assign them responsibilities”
Make them responsible by assigning them duties according to
their age and prepare them to face the world. But make sure to keep a balance
so that they would not be over burdened. For example, you can train toddlers to
drink water on their own, eat on their own. School going kids should put lunch
boxes in their bags themselves, take out copies for homework and put them back
themselves. In the beginning, you can make deal to do these chores together to
make them habitual and then later after few months, ask them to do it
themselves.
Assign Days For
Certain Tasks
There are certain things that your kid should not do every day
and you can also not omit it completely. Like eating junk food, watching
cartoons on you tube. Normally, I give junk food to my daughter once a week on
Monday & she watches cartoons on you tube on Friday (under my supervision).
This trick helped me a lot in limiting the things I did not want her to do
every day.
Limit screen time
As smart phones are everywhere, we cannot cut it completely
but we can limit its usage. Tell your children that they can use smart phones
for once in a day for 20 – 30 mins. In the same way, TV time should also be not
more than 2 hours. Increased screen time results in increased aggression, poor
communication, week eye sight and severe screen addiction. Electromagnetic radiations
that are omitted from such devices can harm bones of children less than 12
years.
Keep Yourself Calm
When They Show Extreme Behavior
Every time your child shows extreme behavior try to keep
yourself calm. Tell him reason for once why this thing is not possible now and
then ignore him. For example, you went to a toy store with your kid. Inform him
before leaving the house that we are going to purchase toy for some kid who is
having birthday soon and not going to buy toy for him. If he starts showing
extreme behavior in the shop just ask politely that we came here to buy present
for someone else and then ignore him for some time. He will settle soon after
sometime.
Keep Rewards
There are certain tasks that you want your children to do independently
and you do not know how to. For example, you want your child to get ready for
school himself on time. You can keep some reward for task. If he gets ready on
time, mark his points and then on weekend give him some reward based on his
points. This will provide your kid with motivation for that certain task and
that will later be turned into his habit.
Friday, 20 October 2017
Why do we face Grief and Sorrows in our Life?
Every human being wants to stay happy always without any fear in his mind. We all want to live in this perfect world where no one would hurt us. Where there would be no sorrow and no grief in our way but that perfect situation can only be wished and can never be experienced. The concept of ultimate happiness can not be found in this world. If poor are worried about their basic needs then rich are worried about their money or something else. A poor person thinks that the rich one is happy where as the rich person seeks for peace of mind. He has everything but still lacks peace that the poor has. People often think that only they are facing problems and the rest of the world is happy. That is not true. Every person in this world faces sorrows and grief. In fact, grief did not spare any one. If a person looks happy that does not mean he has no problems in his life. That shows that he is still keeping a happy face in all of his adversities.
Reasons for
Adversities And Hardships
Nothing comes without a reason so as adversities in our
life. Allah does not do anything
without purpose. Before we look into the causes of calamities and hardships, we need to make sure whether we have right perception about this life or not. This life is actually a test for the mankind. The purpose of man’s creation is to praise Allah as per our Holy
book Quran
without purpose. Before we look into the causes of calamities and hardships, we need to make sure whether we have right perception about this life or not. This life is actually a test for the mankind. The purpose of man’s creation is to praise Allah as per our Holy
book Quran
“I have created the jinn and humankind only for My worship” (51:56)
Allah has given us choice and a free will and after that He
has asked us to remember Him and follow His orders. Then He puts humans into
troubles as well as into happy moments and checks the attitude of the person.
If one person is happy today, he may not be happy tomorrow. These ups and downs
require you to remember Allah and praise him in all circumstances. Seek help
from him with prayers and have trust that your Allah will take you out of it.
This belief makes you strong enough to ask Allah only for your needs. Put all
of your legal efforts to solve the problem and keep on praying. Allah is actually
observing that if you loved Allah in good times, did you remember Him in bad
ones? This is the attitude that Allah wants you to adopt. As this world is a
testing place, so you never find ultimate happiness over here. That is a reason
why goods days are followed by bad ones. Every day and every moment, this exam
is going on. So we must do what Allah wants us to do rather than what we want
because by following the orders of our Allah, we will be successful in this
life and the hereafter. If a person forgets Allah and does not worship and
remember him till his death, he is failed in the test and will be going to hell
where as the pious ones will go to heaven. Heaven is the reward from Allah’s
side to His obedient creature. People will always stay happy there, they will
have what they want, loads of tasty fruits and eatables and peace of mind. So
the ultimate concept of happiness that every man carries does not lie in this
world but in the next one as a reward, for remembering Allah in all
circumstances.
I read a true story of a girl and she said that she did
everything to make herself happy. She crossed every limit to do things the way
she wanted to. Habitual of taking drugs,
not being loyal in relationships, she lived her life the way she wanted to but
still she was unhappy and committed suicide. Her last words were
“I did everything right or wrong to make myself happy and now I realize
that ultimate happiness does not lie in this life. So I don’t want to live it anymore”
That shows that we can not be successful in this world by
following our will but by following Allah’s will. He has created us and he
knows better what is good and bad for us. If we do not follow his commandments,
how can we still stay happy when making a person happy is in his control as
well?
In our holy book Quran, two reasons are provided for the
occurrence of hardships.
i)
Due
to the person’s sins
One of the reasons for facing problems is actually our own sins that we
have committed. We should not live a life with disobedience of Allah and doing
things against his will. This way actually, we are moving towards hell with our
deeds. Allah does not want us to choose the path that leads to hell so he
afflicts the person with some adversity and calamity in order to draw his
attention towards his bad acts and make them better by repentance. Problems in
a person’s life bring him closer to his lord as he needs His help.
“Whatever misfortune happens to you is
because of the things your hands have wrought and for many (of them) He grants
forgiveness.”
Quran(42:30)
So, if you are facing unfavorable circumstances in your life, turn to Allah,
look at the sins you are committing and ask for His forgiveness.
ii)
Elevation
of ranks in front of Allah
Sometimes it happens that some people are pious and they remember Allah,
worship him and leading their life according to Allah’s commandments, yet they
are facing so many problems and tragedies in their lives. By observing such
situation, people often wonder that why is this person facing all these
calamities even when he does not forget Allah at all. The reason can be further
explained in the below mentioned verse.
“The
magnitude of the reward goes along with the magnitude of the affliction. When Allah,
who is great and glorious, loves people He afflicts them, and those who receive
it gladly receive Allah’s pleasure, but those who are displeased receive Allah’s
displeasure” (Hadith:Tirmidhi)
The reason for putting a pious person into adversities is Allah’s giving
a chance to a person to prove his obedience and love for His Lord. When a
person reacts in a positive way in his problems, he becomes more patient,
grateful, courageous and a strong person. Consequently, ranks of the person are
elevated near Allah and it is one of the major factors to be successful in the
hereafter. And of coarse, this life is a test for all mankind so facing
problems and things you dislike are part of the test.
“It
might be that you dislike a thing and Allah brings about a great deal of good
through it” (Quran 4:19)
The Cure for Grief
Grief and sorrows are a part of every human’s life. The cure
for grief is to accept the decisions of Allah, keep an attitude of
gratefulness, be patient, repenting on our sins, be sure that we are not alone
as Allah is there for us and keep up the trust in Allah. Let’s look into the
detail to understand well.
An Attitude Of Gratefulness
No matter what happens, we should be thankful to Allah for
what we have rather than
what we don’t have. Sitting in your room, if you look around at the things you have in it, you should be thankful to Allah as He has given you everything. If you look at your body, you should be grateful for a healthy body, two eyes that help you to see, ears, nose, mouth, arms, legs and for all of the systems working correctly inside your body without your consent. These are all the gifts of Allah. Normally humans realize their importance when they lose any one of them.
what we don’t have. Sitting in your room, if you look around at the things you have in it, you should be thankful to Allah as He has given you everything. If you look at your body, you should be grateful for a healthy body, two eyes that help you to see, ears, nose, mouth, arms, legs and for all of the systems working correctly inside your body without your consent. These are all the gifts of Allah. Normally humans realize their importance when they lose any one of them.
“In worldly matter, look at the one who is inferior to you and do not
look at the one who is superior to you. In this way, you will not look down
upon the bounties that Allah has bestowed upon you” (Hadith: Tirmidhi)
Moreover, there are also a lot of benefits for being
grateful which are as follows
#1
#1
·
Allah gives more to grateful people
# #2
# #2
·
Being grateful in this world in all
circumstances pleases Allah and leads towards heaven.
· #3
Being grateful saves from becoming hopeless and depressed in our bad times.
Being grateful saves from becoming hopeless and depressed in our bad times.
Patience
Patience is the ability to face a negative situation with
positive attitude. Patience is the
key to success in this world and the hereafter. To achieve success in our lives, we must use the key of patience. For example, to get education we wake up daily in the morning, spend hours in the educational institution, prepare test and give exams. All these things seem difficult for us but patience is the main factor that helps us pass through this journey successfully. In many situations especially relationships, patience work as a binding glue between the husband and the wife. Without showing tolerance to the bad qualities of your spouse, you can not carry it on as no human is perfect.
key to success in this world and the hereafter. To achieve success in our lives, we must use the key of patience. For example, to get education we wake up daily in the morning, spend hours in the educational institution, prepare test and give exams. All these things seem difficult for us but patience is the main factor that helps us pass through this journey successfully. In many situations especially relationships, patience work as a binding glue between the husband and the wife. Without showing tolerance to the bad qualities of your spouse, you can not carry it on as no human is perfect.
Apart from the worldly benefits, patience is the favorite
attitude of a person that Allah wants him to adopt. Apparently, it seems that
we are losing the game with patience but we actually win in the end because Allah
helps those who are patient. Allahs says
“O you who believe! Seek help with patience perseverance and prayer:
for Allah is with those who patiently presevere” (Quran 2:153)
So if you are worried about some matter, be patient, put in
your best without being negative and pray to Allah, he will surely solve your
problems.
Repentance
Repenting from the mistakes you made in the past, brings you
closer to Allah and lifts up
the burden of sins from your soul. It often happens that the guilt of some sin does not let you sleep or makes you feel depressed. If you truly repent over what you did and do not repeat it, Allah forgives you and you feel quite relaxed.
the burden of sins from your soul. It often happens that the guilt of some sin does not let you sleep or makes you feel depressed. If you truly repent over what you did and do not repeat it, Allah forgives you and you feel quite relaxed.
Belief in the here
after
Belief in the hereafter is such a strong factor that reduces
the intensity of grief and sorrows. When you are sure about the fact that these
painful moments are temporary belonging to this life only and you will be
rewarded by Allah for your patience in the hereafter, it relaxes your mind and
departs your depression.
Trust in Allah
Our religion teaches us to submit our will to Allah’s will.
Once we will do that, our soul will automatically be relaxed. Trust in Allah
demands to put all of our positive efforts to solve our problem, pray, do what Allah
has asked us to do and leave the rest over him. If you are facing pain, be patient and pray
for the relief. Allah helps for sure. It may take sometime but He does not
disappoint those who trust him. Pains and sorrows are from Allah’s side as a
test for us in this life whether we still obey Allah or not. So trusting in Allah
makes you successful in the exam. And there are also certain things that you
dislike but they are good for you as you learn a lot from your bad experiences.
Allah says in the Holy book Quran
“It might be
that you dislike a thing and Allah brings about a great deal of good through
it” (4:19)
How To Keep Your Parents Happy
The meaning
of unconditional love is truly understood by parents because God has dwelled
love in their hearts for their children. No matter you treat them with good
attitude or a bad one, they will love you in all circumstances and this quality
differentiates them from the rest of the world. The basic problem with a
child-parent relationship is that God has planted love in the heart of the
parents but not all children love their parents the way they should love. In
all Holy books, there is a certain point to be noted. God has always asked
children to obey and look after their parents but there is not even a single
statement that asks the parents to take care of their children because God
knows that He does not need to tell them to do so as they’ve already being
programmed to love their children unconditionally.
Children do
love their parents as well but not as much as parents do. They often do not
know the ways to make parents happy the way they should and in many ways they
hurt their parents. Hurting parents in
this world will never make you successful in this life and the hereafter as
their prayers always accompany you and ease your difficulties in the ways we do
not understand. God has given them high ranks because mothers keep you in her
womb for nine months with pain and then takes care of you when you needed care
the most as a baby. Your father worked day and night just to feed you and his
wife setting his own priorities behind. Many children think that it’s the duty
of parents to take care of their children. Never take the efforts of your
parents for granted. Many times they sacrificed the things they loved just for
their children. Their life is full of sacrifices so they deserve your care and
respect. Many children realize the real contribution of parents in their lives
when they themselves become parents. I want you to realize this earlier especially
in your teens when children often think their parents to be their rivals. This
perception is wrong. If you do not understand why are they stopping you to do
things independently and keeping you in limits, you should know that you are
too immature to understand the significance. Still obey them and within few
years, you will know the reason and will be satisfied.
The realization
of how children should treat their parents is very important and the purpose of
writing this article is an effort to do so.
Time then money
The most
important thing that you, as a child, should give your parents is your time. As
soon as parents get old, they need your time more and become more sensitive.
Realizing responsibilities, many children think that they should look after
their parents by sending them money only. Money is important for them as well
but your attention is of more priority than money. So, you should give them
both. Even if you’re too busy, spend at least 1 hour with them and find out
which any problems they have or anything they need for which they are dependent
over you. Sort out their issues if any and this is the best way they will feel
that you care for them.
Obedience
Obedient children are always loved and appreciated by
parents. You should try to obey your parents as much as you could unless they
ask you to do something unethical. It might be possible that you disagree with
them several times on many issues. In that case convey them politely that you
think about it this way. If they do not understand, do not try to win the
argument with them. Be quiet and do not shout even if you do not agree but
never do anything that God does not want you to do for them. You should always
try to maintain respect in this relationship because your parents look after
you when you were a baby. They do not feel good emotionally if you argue with
them rudely on any matter.
Care
If any deserve your maximum care in this world then those are
your parents. They look after you and sacrificed many things for your happiness
through out your life so you should try to take care of them to the most. Help
them in their daily chores, make up their cupboard, bring the things that they
need from market, look after them if they are ill and give them food on proper
timings if they are old. If you are going somewhere meet them before leaving
and let them know if you’re travelling somewhere that you reached them safely.
Call them daily if you’re away from them. Take care of their friends and
relatives as this makes them happy when you have a positive attitude with their
loved ones.
Be Grateful
One of the most important things is that you must make your
parents realize how much you are grateful for their efforts that they put in to
make you a person you are today. Expressing feelings is difficult but as far as
you’re dealing with humans it is an essential ingredient in informing them how
much you love them. Be thankful to them for the care they give you and never
show them that you get irritated when they are concerned about your well-being.
Gifts
Surprise them with gifts and do not wait for a particular
occasion. Always keep track of their needs and likes and meet them by gifting
them things that they need the most. For example, if your mother likes roses,
bring her a bunch of roses someday. She will feel herself very special and will
be happy to have it from her child. Make their favorite dish as a surprise.
Patience
As soon as parents are getting older, you have to show them
more patience. Old age itself is a disease and people get more difficult and
bitter as they are getting older. Always treat them with patience and never
scold them or speak rude to them. If they scold you, listen them carefully and
convey your point politely. Many problems arise when you’re dealing with old
people. Sometimes they can not listen to you because of the malfunctioning of
the ears and sometimes they forget things and start scolding their children
even when they did not make mistake. Do not take it serious and be patient. You
should always know that you heaven and hell lies in their happiness and sorrow.
Make them happy and God will make you a successful person in this world and the
hereafter.
Pray for
them
Being a good child, you should pray for your parents’
everyday for their good health and a better life in both worlds. If they are
ill or facing problems in their life, pray for the ease of their pains. God
listens to the prayers of children for their parents and the prayers of parents
for their children.
Good deeds
Be a good human being and a do good deeds. Never do anything
that makes them feel embarrassed. You should work hard to get good grades in
school and word hard in your job. No one becomes as happy as your parents on
your success. Always avoid bad acts such as crimes, cheating anyone, taking
drugs, being dishonest etc. Your good attitude and good character are the two things
that make your parents feel proud of you because they played a major role in
making you a person you are today.
Old homes
Never ever send your parents to old homes. Always keep them
with you once they are old and take care of them no matter how difficult it is
for you. Relations are more important than time and money. Never sacrifice your
relations for these two things. All of the Holy Books advise humans to take
care of their parents. By leaving to old homes you are getting rid of their responsibility
but make sure not to do something with your parents that you do not like for
yourself. They took good care of you when you were a child and now they do not
deserve this and whatever you do will be returned back to you. This is the rule
of the world.
Balance
between your spouse and parents
Your parents and your spouse both are important in your
lives. While dealing with both, there is more responsibility on your shoulders
to keep justice between both of them. Give time to parents and a separate time
to your spouse as well. If you are sitting with everyone do not consider it to
be giving time to your spouse too. If you want that your spouse would love your
parents too and do not take them as a burden, give him/her separate time in
room as well. When you are giving him/her privacy, he/she will not feel you
parents to be a hurdle in your relationship and will respect and love them
more. At least once a week you should go out with your spouse alone to give
him/her space to enjoy time with you. Never ever side your parents or your
spouse when your spouse or parents talks about some problem regarding each
other respectively and be just. Admitting their mistakes cools down the person
who has problem where as taking wrong side inducts hatred in their hearts for
the other party. If you keep a good balance between your parents and your
spouse, they both will go along better with each other resulting peace and
happiness in your home.
02:53
Posted by SarahNC in becoming a person, good children, good parents, happy marriage, happy parents, how to be a good daughter, how to be a good son, how to keep your parents happy, parents, self improvement, work for yourself with 0 comments
Read More
Posted by SarahNC in becoming a person, good children, good parents, happy marriage, happy parents, how to be a good daughter, how to be a good son, how to keep your parents happy, parents, self improvement, work for yourself with 0 comments
Thursday, 19 October 2017
How To Be Happy In Marriage
Marriage is a relationship in which a man and a woman are tied together to spend their lives together as a team. It is extremely important to understand the word “team” before getting into the relationship. It is lifestyle that has been prescribed by God for humans to live a satisfied life emotionally and physically. But as we see nowadays, marriage is now a good subject for jokes and disliked relationship by singles. Most of the jokes shared interpret wives as the most silly person and husbands as an innocent person loaded with a number of responsibilities of his wife and children. Unmarried people normally take marriage as a big responsibility that will be imposed on them and they’ll be tied together in a relationship sacrificing their independence in return.
Living this life is not a joke whether job seeking is
concerned or saving a marriage. Always remember life never offer you success by
following short cuts or by sitting idle. One has to work hard with consistency
to achieve something good in life and many times it happens that to achieve a
fruitful result, you keep on working hard regardless of how hard the
circumstances are around you. Same is the case with marriage. To live a happy
married life, you’ll have to work hard with full devotion. You should first
focus on performing your duties and then asking for your rights. Even if your
spouse is not giving you your rights, your good attitude will do the magic with
time. Your efforts will one day be successful and you will be rewarded with a
happy married life. Before we move on to how to keep your spouse happy, it is
very necessary to understand the nature or built-in programming of both
partners to tackle them accordingly.
Man’s nature
As far as relationship is concerned, it is in men’s instinct
to dominate. God has put the
responsibility to feed their families and look after them. To do so, God has made them the head of the family. Likewise, any organization is led by a single boss; this world is governed by one God so a family can be headed by one person. Any organization that is led by two people can not be successful but it will often happen that both of them will disagree at many stages resulting in a catastrophe. Moreover, men do not like to work at home because they have been designed to work outside the house. Men always admire and love a woman who obeys them. To keep a man happy, the first and the foremost quality that a woman should posses is obedience. That does not mean that the wife will live like slaves. She can talk to her husband politely where she disagrees and can give her suggestions but once a man has taken a decision, she should accept it as long as it is not against the orders of God. By nature, men are not expressive and they always try to pose they are fine even if they are not.
responsibility to feed their families and look after them. To do so, God has made them the head of the family. Likewise, any organization is led by a single boss; this world is governed by one God so a family can be headed by one person. Any organization that is led by two people can not be successful but it will often happen that both of them will disagree at many stages resulting in a catastrophe. Moreover, men do not like to work at home because they have been designed to work outside the house. Men always admire and love a woman who obeys them. To keep a man happy, the first and the foremost quality that a woman should posses is obedience. That does not mean that the wife will live like slaves. She can talk to her husband politely where she disagrees and can give her suggestions but once a man has taken a decision, she should accept it as long as it is not against the orders of God. By nature, men are not expressive and they always try to pose they are fine even if they are not.
Woman’s nature
Women are delicate by nature and are designed by God to look
after their house and the
children. God has not put the responsibility of earning on women because many times it happens that women undergo some particular physical conditions like periods, pregnancy in which she does not find her in a stable condition. They can willingly do job but it is not compulsory for them to earn. As they had to look after house, children and their husband so doing job is an additional work over them. Women are emotional because they had to take care of children and husband. Only an emotional person can look after the little things you need to take care of your baby unlike men. Because of this emotional aspect, women have been given the beautiful responsibility to take care of the kids who require extreme attention and care. Men can not handle children like women can. Women are physically weak and they always need the support and protection of a man. Women need attention everyday. It is their nature to speak out what they feel. Men normally do not talk much but to keep your wife happy, you must give her a quality time everyday. If you do not talk to her, she’ll find someone else to speak out her feelings like friend or family. Women love to be praised and expressed so men should speak out what they like in the wives.
children. God has not put the responsibility of earning on women because many times it happens that women undergo some particular physical conditions like periods, pregnancy in which she does not find her in a stable condition. They can willingly do job but it is not compulsory for them to earn. As they had to look after house, children and their husband so doing job is an additional work over them. Women are emotional because they had to take care of children and husband. Only an emotional person can look after the little things you need to take care of your baby unlike men. Because of this emotional aspect, women have been given the beautiful responsibility to take care of the kids who require extreme attention and care. Men can not handle children like women can. Women are physically weak and they always need the support and protection of a man. Women need attention everyday. It is their nature to speak out what they feel. Men normally do not talk much but to keep your wife happy, you must give her a quality time everyday. If you do not talk to her, she’ll find someone else to speak out her feelings like friend or family. Women love to be praised and expressed so men should speak out what they like in the wives.
Though the aspects given in men and women’s nature are much
against the concept of modern woman, but this is the way things are designed by
God. You may make a person do what is not in his/her nature but this will not
result in a satisfactory relationship as you can not change the nature of the
person.
Fear of God
Marriage is a relationship designed by God and before
entering into it, both spouses should consider the rights of each other that
God has set. Being humans, they should respect each other and try not to do
things that would disturb or hurt your spouse because in the here after, you
will be questioned for each and every bad act you did with anyone
intentionally. Accepting men as the head of the family does not mean women are
inferior. Men are superior in their role of responsibilities. They’ll be questioned
about their family and women will be questioned about their children and house.
How did they look after them? Near God, pious person will be superior no matter
a man or a woman. We should be good with our spouses for God’s sake because
we’ll be careful about giving them their rights regardless of their attitude. A
day will come they will realize their responsibilities. All humans make
mistake. With forgiveness and patience, we should solve problems. As humans are
imperfect and they always make mistakes. They can not make God happy who has given
them so many blessings so how can they make you 100% happy.
Ways to save your
marriage
#1
Communication is the first and the foremost tool
in a successful marriage. Both partners should share everyday experiences with
each other and give quality time of minimum one hour to each other. Many
relationships are killed by the silence between the partners that emerge by not
giving attention to their spouses and with the passage of time, they do not
have anything to talk about.
#2
While giving quality time, make sure to remove
anything in surroundings that is diverting your attention e.g TV, internet,
telephone. Listen to each other carefully
#3
Both partners should care for each other ranging
from large matters to small ones because if something is little for you and
disturbing your spouse, soon it will emerge as a big problem.
#4
Express your feelings often and let the other
partner know how important he/she is for you. Women are often expressive but
men take things many things for granted after marriage. If you want to keep
your wife happy, you should admire her; express your feelings for her everyday
otherwise she will wither like a flower.
#5
Wife should obey her husband as far as it is not against the orders of God because the first thing men want in their relationship is the obedience of their wives.
#6
Both husband and wife should take care of each other relatives and friends.
#7
Both partners should admit the faults of their relatives and should not favor them unjustly.
#8
Women feel themselves secure if their husband listens to their problems. If your wife is telling you some problem, you should not ignore her otherwise she will feel lonely and you should tackle it justly even if it is your mistake or your relative’s. Never feel ashamed in accepting your mistake. Otherwise, it will result in increasing hatred in your wife’s heart as you are not acting justly.
#9
Give surprises to each other e.g leaving a romantic note while leaving for the other partner, giving gifts, flowers or making a good dish.
#10
If you have any problem, talk to each other politely. Politeness works best as far as problem solving is concerned.
#11
Never feel ashamed in admitting your fault. It solves the matter sooner.
#12
Every human has positive and negative points. Always keep an eye on the positive ones and ignore the negatives.
#13
Do not take a moment to forgive your partner. Always remember every relationship needs forgiveness to carry on otherwise it can not carry on.
#14
Never take your partner for granted. It’s human nature to take things for granted that come in our possession but your partner is a human not a thing. Always treasure his/her presence and your love should increase rather than decreasing with the passage of time.
#15
Help each other in every matter.
#16
If your spouse is feeling not well, leave everything and take care of him as he needs you the most at that time.
#17
Respect each other’s feelings and never make fun.
#18
Give unconditional love to each other. Give what you want from the other person. Soon you’ll have it.
#19
Remember each others birthdays and anniversaries.
#20
Respect each other specially in front of other people. If you disagree with your partner in a gathering, never point out in front of everyone. Discuss it later privately.
#21
Keep each others secrets. It will develop trust and do not talk negatively about your spouse with anyone else.
#22
Never support each others in bad acts.
#23
If you’ll be late from office, inform your spouse.
#24
If you are out of city for a day or more, give a phone call.
#25
Do activities together like playing a game, walking or cleaning house together.
#26
Always share light jokes with each other and keep alive a good sense of humor. Making someone smile is the best charity.
#27
Always remember the promises you make to each other and try to keep them.
#28
Help each other in cleaning your house.
#29
Always speak truth to each other. Lies can never save your relationship no matter how easy they seem.
#30
Never keep a physical relation without love like animals. It will make your relationship more worse than before.
#5
Wife should obey her husband as far as it is not against the orders of God because the first thing men want in their relationship is the obedience of their wives.
#6
Both husband and wife should take care of each other relatives and friends.
#7
Both partners should admit the faults of their relatives and should not favor them unjustly.
#8
Women feel themselves secure if their husband listens to their problems. If your wife is telling you some problem, you should not ignore her otherwise she will feel lonely and you should tackle it justly even if it is your mistake or your relative’s. Never feel ashamed in accepting your mistake. Otherwise, it will result in increasing hatred in your wife’s heart as you are not acting justly.
#9
Give surprises to each other e.g leaving a romantic note while leaving for the other partner, giving gifts, flowers or making a good dish.
#10
If you have any problem, talk to each other politely. Politeness works best as far as problem solving is concerned.
#11
Never feel ashamed in admitting your fault. It solves the matter sooner.
#12
Every human has positive and negative points. Always keep an eye on the positive ones and ignore the negatives.
#13
Do not take a moment to forgive your partner. Always remember every relationship needs forgiveness to carry on otherwise it can not carry on.
#14
Never take your partner for granted. It’s human nature to take things for granted that come in our possession but your partner is a human not a thing. Always treasure his/her presence and your love should increase rather than decreasing with the passage of time.
#15
Help each other in every matter.
#16
If your spouse is feeling not well, leave everything and take care of him as he needs you the most at that time.
#17
Respect each other’s feelings and never make fun.
#18
Give unconditional love to each other. Give what you want from the other person. Soon you’ll have it.
#19
Remember each others birthdays and anniversaries.
#20
Respect each other specially in front of other people. If you disagree with your partner in a gathering, never point out in front of everyone. Discuss it later privately.
#21
Keep each others secrets. It will develop trust and do not talk negatively about your spouse with anyone else.
#22
Never support each others in bad acts.
#23
If you’ll be late from office, inform your spouse.
#24
If you are out of city for a day or more, give a phone call.
#25
Do activities together like playing a game, walking or cleaning house together.
#26
Always share light jokes with each other and keep alive a good sense of humor. Making someone smile is the best charity.
#27
Always remember the promises you make to each other and try to keep them.
#28
Help each other in cleaning your house.
#29
Always speak truth to each other. Lies can never save your relationship no matter how easy they seem.
#30
Never keep a physical relation without love like animals. It will make your relationship more worse than before.
04:08
Posted by SarahNC in happy marriage, how to be a good husband, how to be a good wife, how to be happy, how to be happy in marriage, how to be relaxed, how to keep yourself happy in marriage, self improvement, work for yourself with 2 comments
Read More
Posted by SarahNC in happy marriage, how to be a good husband, how to be a good wife, how to be happy, how to be happy in marriage, how to be relaxed, how to keep yourself happy in marriage, self improvement, work for yourself with 2 comments
5 Foods Good For Pregnant Women
Being pregnant is one of the biggest blessings of God over us. Our God is giving us an honor to experience the pleasures and charms of motherhood. Every pregnancy should be started by saying a big thank to God who decided to bless the mother with a cute baby. Like health, every pregnancy needs a lot of care and attention as it is highly dependent over the diet that you are taking in. A good diet not only helps in making up a healthy baby but is great in keeping the mother fit as well.
Pregnancy does not require you to eat
some special and expensive foods but a variety of foods that should contain a
good ratio of all the nutrients required. You should take a balanced diet and
there are also certain foods that should be avoided. So it is necessary for you
to understand which foods are good for the pregnant women and in which amount.
With the start of pregnancy, mothers
often think that they need to eat more. Yes you should eat a bit more but not
equal to the food of the two persons. After all, the baby is not a person but a
tiny little being. Use your body as an indicator to judge the amount of food
you should take. You will feel hungry for sure if your body needs some food.
Moreover, you need to consult your nutritionist
or a naturopathic doctor if you think you are eating more or less than
the requirement. It often happens that some women are less hungry but they eat
more after knowing that they are pregnant and then they get habitual of eating
more than required. Make sure you would not cross that line.
I think all pregnant women should have a good
idea of which foods they should take. If the mother is lacking any basic
nutrient in her body, it will affect her baby for sure. The aim of writing this
post is make people aware of the healthy food requirements of the pregnant
women. She should know whether she is taking food from all different food
groups or not making up a good balance. Let us look at some of the foods that
are very much necessary, beneficial and healthy for a “Mom-To-Be”
Fruits and Vegetables
The significance of fruits and
vegetables cannot be ignored in pregnancy as they contain
fibers and all nutrients that are required by body. Oranges are the great sources of vitamin C, folic acid and potassium known for keeping the blood pressure in control. Apples are rich in iron. Your daily intake of fruits and vegetables should be three vegetables and two fruit. One glass of apple or orange juice being rich in vitamin C should be taken every day. Vegetables especially green leafy play a vital role in providing necessary nutrients required in pregnancy. Yellow vegetables, yellow fruits and green leafy vegetables contain vitamin A which is important for healthy bones, eyes, skin and cell growth. Apart from that, figs and dates are also a rich source of iron and should be taken in every pregnancy.
fibers and all nutrients that are required by body. Oranges are the great sources of vitamin C, folic acid and potassium known for keeping the blood pressure in control. Apples are rich in iron. Your daily intake of fruits and vegetables should be three vegetables and two fruit. One glass of apple or orange juice being rich in vitamin C should be taken every day. Vegetables especially green leafy play a vital role in providing necessary nutrients required in pregnancy. Yellow vegetables, yellow fruits and green leafy vegetables contain vitamin A which is important for healthy bones, eyes, skin and cell growth. Apart from that, figs and dates are also a rich source of iron and should be taken in every pregnancy.
Red Meat
Being a rich source of iron, protein,
vitamins and nutrients, red meat should be a high
priority meat in pregnancy. Some people say that red meat is not good for health. All you need to do is to search for organic meat which is leaner and contains omega-3. Omega-3 is good for the fetus nervous system and brain development. Red meat contains the following nutrients:-
priority meat in pregnancy. Some people say that red meat is not good for health. All you need to do is to search for organic meat which is leaner and contains omega-3. Omega-3 is good for the fetus nervous system and brain development. Red meat contains the following nutrients:-
· Protein: Good for the growth and development of a
baby. Provides the structure and function of many systems of human body.
Pregnant women need 75 and 100 grams of protein every day.
· Iron: Red meat provides 3 milligram of iron per
serving. It is recommended by the American Pregnancy Association that a pregnant
woman should take meat two to three times daily. 3 ounces of meat make up 1
serving.
Yogurt
Yogurt is a really healthy food for
pregnancy recommended by all medical experts. Just
like other daily products, you just need to make sure whether it is pasteurized or not and prefer the pasteurized one. Yogurt contains more calcium than milk and a great source of protein as well. Three containers of yogurt per day should be a reasonable intake. Yogurt also reduces the risk of yeast infections with active cultures. Its daily intake reduces the risk of suffering from preeclampsia. Women suffering from preeclampsia have high blood pressure and high amount of protein in urine. In short, yogurt is really essential for the health of all pregnant mothers and their babies and should not be missed at any cost.
like other daily products, you just need to make sure whether it is pasteurized or not and prefer the pasteurized one. Yogurt contains more calcium than milk and a great source of protein as well. Three containers of yogurt per day should be a reasonable intake. Yogurt also reduces the risk of yeast infections with active cultures. Its daily intake reduces the risk of suffering from preeclampsia. Women suffering from preeclampsia have high blood pressure and high amount of protein in urine. In short, yogurt is really essential for the health of all pregnant mothers and their babies and should not be missed at any cost.
Milk
Daily products are really good for
pregnant mothers especially milk. All dairy products are
good for the bones and teeth of the fetus as long as they are pasteurized. Pasteurized milk is produced without artificial hormones, pesticides and antibodies and contains extra omega-3. Milk is a good source of calcium, protein, riboflavin and vitamin D. Vitamin D good for the development of fetus skeleton bones and is also needed to transport calcium to fetus through the umbilical cord. Milk also helps in digestion and increases the appetite of a pregnant woman. Every pregnant woman should take about 4 cups of milk everyday to meet the requirements of calcium in both the baby and the mother.
good for the bones and teeth of the fetus as long as they are pasteurized. Pasteurized milk is produced without artificial hormones, pesticides and antibodies and contains extra omega-3. Milk is a good source of calcium, protein, riboflavin and vitamin D. Vitamin D good for the development of fetus skeleton bones and is also needed to transport calcium to fetus through the umbilical cord. Milk also helps in digestion and increases the appetite of a pregnant woman. Every pregnant woman should take about 4 cups of milk everyday to meet the requirements of calcium in both the baby and the mother.
Beans
"Beans,
beans, and good for the heart /the more you eat”
Beans are one of the best foods in
pregnancy because they contain fewer calories and
more nutrients, meeting the needs of a pregnant mom without making her fat. This was acknowledged by Dr. Miriam Stoppard in her book "Conception, Pregnancy and Birth” .Kidney beans contain carbohydrates and low-fat proteins making them a perfect food to choice during pregnancy.
more nutrients, meeting the needs of a pregnant mom without making her fat. This was acknowledged by Dr. Miriam Stoppard in her book "Conception, Pregnancy and Birth” .Kidney beans contain carbohydrates and low-fat proteins making them a perfect food to choice during pregnancy.
Beans are rich in iron, fiber,
protein, folate calcium and zinc. Black
beans, pinto beans, white beans, lentils, black-eyed peas, and kidney,
garbanzo, or soy beans contains a large amount of protein and fiber. As baby
grows in a mother’s womb, it needs more nutrients that may not be fulfilled by
mother’s body. Beans contain the major nutrients that are good for your baby
growth with minimal amount of calories. So if you are pregnant, you must not
miss beans at all.
03:23
Posted by SarahNC in 5 foods for pregnant women, healthy foods, pregnancy, pregnancy foods, self improvement, what to eat in pregnancy, what to take in pregnancy, work for yourself with 6 comments
Read More
Posted by SarahNC in 5 foods for pregnant women, healthy foods, pregnancy, pregnancy foods, self improvement, what to eat in pregnancy, what to take in pregnancy, work for yourself with 6 comments
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)